My best friend (lets call her Amy) met her FH overseas. He moved across the world to be with her (from Spain to Australia) with his parents and brother remaining in their home country. Amy has decided that once everything is over and done with re COVID and international travel is back on, they will get married somewhere that is exotic and halfway between Spain and Australia (think Mauritius, the Seychelles, the Maldives etc).
I am scared of flying and am hoping to combat it because I do genuinely love travelling. I would love to return to Europe for a number of holidays once I have conquered my fear. That aside, Amy's eventual wedding will cost a bomb to attend. The locations she likes are all very expensive to travel to, and would require 2 flights so understandably this wouldn't be a wedding to 'fly-in and fly-out' of.
Even if I am able to fly again in time for the wedding (at this rate it won't be until 2022 at least) I really don't feel comfortable spending the amount of money we'd need to attend the wedding. The wedding isn't set in stone yet for obvious reasons but Amy keeps almost lecturing me that if I can spend money to go to Italy or the UK, then I can obviously afford to go to her wedding.
I think Amy is being quite presumptive and entitled here but for obvious reasons I can't say that to her. Has anyone else been in the same boat of having someone else critique them re attending a destination wedding?