Will it be just like a regular mass, but with the rite of marriage in place of the homily? I need help! I dont know what to do! Im having my fsil sing a song, and i was going to hire one of the soloists at my church to sing the rest of the songs..but my FMIL and grandmother in law told me not to hire a soloist and have FSIL sing..but i am sooo not about to bombard her with all the songs!! so someone please help! are wedding masses usually like a regular mass? i just need to know how many songs...(responsorial, offeratory, communion, and recessional) are usually sung at a mass wedding..also if i should hire the soloist?