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Just Said Yes July 2017

Pregnant Bridesmaid

Jessica, on May 18, 2017 at 1:12 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 44

I have a bridesmaid who found out she was pregnant in March. I still wanted her in the wedding but it doesn't seem like she wants to. My maid of honor and I have sent numerous messages to her and the other girls and she hasn't responded. She is now telling my maid of honor she can go to the bridal...

I have a bridesmaid who found out she was pregnant in March. I still wanted her in the wedding but it doesn't seem like she wants to. My maid of honor and I have sent numerous messages to her and the other girls and she hasn't responded. She is now telling my maid of honor she can go to the bridal shower but not the batchlorette party which for her is about the same distance. My wedding is further than both. I understand pregnancy can be very difficult. Is it wrong of me to ask her if she is coming to the wedding if she can't come to the batchlorette party?

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  • BlushingBride
    VIP October 2017
    BlushingBride ·
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    Being at a bachelorette party and celebrating your wedding g are two different things. I wouldn't worry about it.

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    Expert November 2017
    Lck5002 ·
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    With the bachelorette party 2 weeks before the wedding I would just assume that she doesn't want to make the trip so close together. My sister is currently pregnant and was saying yesterday how much her lower back has been bothering her especially when she sits for long periods of time so she isn't ready to commit to traveling home with my nephew for a weekend in June yet. It just depends how she feels. The bachelorette party will probably not be fun for her though and the wedding is the main event.

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  • Kendra
    Dedicated June 2018
    Kendra ·
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    I think you should definitely question her to see if she wants to still participate in your wedding I understand she is a good friend of yours but you have to consider her feelings and also think about how she's going to feel the date of your wedding because she is going to be pregnant she may not feel as beautiful she may not smile as much she may not want to take as many pictures so with that being said ask her if she wants to be in the wedding and if she says no then just be OK with that

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  • Marianne
    Expert May 2017
    Marianne ·
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    If she is having a baby she just may not want to go to a party that she cant drink at. I am sure she will be at the wedding

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