Hi! We are getting married in September in MI and all the guests (about 40-45) will be coming from OH (about a 7-8 hour drive). I don't know at this point who is coming Friday night and who is driving up Saturday and going back Sunday. We are having a small wedding, no wedding party, just us, officiate and guests, in a relatives beautiful back yard, and are debating between a tent, tables, caterer at the house, or reserving a room at a restaurant for a dinner reception. My question...should we have a meet and greet Friday night somewhere? Should we have a post wedding brunch Sunday? If so, do we pay for those? How and when do we announce those? In the gift packages at the hotels? Sorry for all the questions...thanks for any answers!