So I'm trying to decide whether to have a plated or buffet meal. I want plated and plan to have guests choose their entrees on the rsvp cards. My venue is discouraging this and says people won't be able to be served at the same time so they don't recommend it. They suggest a plate with both a small piece of steak and a small piece of fish. Am I trying to make this too simple or should the different entrees not be that big of a deal?