Discussions from Planning

We have less than a week to go! How are you fixed for last-minute details? Are you stressed or zen? I'm only taking off Friday, so I'm trying to finalize vendors and take care of details (hello...

My headcount is a little higher than expected. I’m paying for my entire wedding myself. I am thinking of having pizza be the only option for kids under 10…? Maybe pizza or chicken fingers IF it’s...

I am deciding on ivory vs white tablecloths. I want to have blush or light pink table runners. Has anyone ordered white or ivory tablecloths from tableclothsfactory.com? My dress is listed as ivory...

Any advice to keep the buget down? We are doing a lot of diy n cutting things out. But the problem is venues n photograhers/videographers.

We had sent out our save the dates a few months ago already. Our venue is at a hotel and they sent us POG link for guests to use with a code for a hotel room. They blocked rooms for our guests and I’m...

I just found out about a month ago that I no longer have a wedding photographer. I was very upset to find out that she went MIA with no explanation. Thank goodness I haven't paid her any money yet....

My fiance is going on a work trip the weekend before our wedding. Generally these trips are to nice locations and I frequently accompany him. However, this time I am worried about running into last...

I’m trying to order table cloths for my reception area but I’m unsure on how many extra tables I’ll need for dessert, buffet, appetizers, water station ect. How many extra tables did you use for your...

I want to bring my own food from my culture and my fiancée's culture to the wedding. But we are having a hard time finding a venue that will allow us to bring our own food. Does anyone know Of any...

Hey yall, idk if anyone here has heard of Mast Cell Activation Syndrome but it SUCKS! It's been 3 years of long covid for me and I still haven't recovered. They say MCAS is like being allergic to the...

How many hours do you have the photography and Videography on your wedding day?

Has anyone eloped with just you and your SO and then thrown a reception after a few months later? We are thinking of this as this is my second wedding and his first but we don’t want a traditional...

Are their any military brides in this group?

My FH and I are planning to get married next year, but are having trouble finding a venue in our area. We found a local venue we love (at dirt cheap price!), however, the only available days they have...

Hello all: I wanted to see what others are doing as far as save the dates. My understanding is that they do not have to match your invitations in color or theme or in any way at all, and can be pretty...

Anyone getting marry on this day? Will you be doing star wars ideas??!

I a answer to my question. This is my first and only wedding. And I am lost I don't wanted to spend to much on my wedding but this is my first wedding. I don't have family like my sister or brother or...

Is 3 weeks after my SIL’s college graduation too close to hold a wedding? We don’t want to overshadow her moment, so we were thinking of pushing our wedding date back two weeks from our original date...

Any ideas for wedding favors for a black tie wedding that does not involve alcohol?