Discussions from Planning

Hi all! My fiancé and I are planning a wedding in Buffalo, NY. We currently live in New Jersey where he is from and I am from Michigan. We settled on Buffalo as it is the halfway mark and I went to...

Hi, Is anyone else having trouble choosing their wedding invitations? Wedding is not until September 2022 but I’m want to find something I love but couldn’t. I’ve looked at minted, magnet street and...

So this might be a really silly question, but is it better to just mail the bridesmaid boxes to ask the bridesmaids? Or should you delivery them and give them in person?

My future husband proposed to me in December, and I didn't tell anyone because we had major life events that kind of made it seem insignificant. Then, last month, he said he wanted to get married on...

I am getting married in Tennessee, but live in Iowa. Do I have to apply for a marriage licenses in person in Tennessee or is there a way to apply online?

I am getting married in a town where there are only 2 hotels and they're are out of the question. One is a small hotel with not so big rooms and the other is a little bigger but the rooms are no...

My big day is in 6 months. I am lost on this part. When did you have yours made? Who did you use?

Hi all! My FH and I are getting married at a beautiful old house and most of the decor/furniture is being provided by the venue. However, I have my heart set on doing a fun display for our seating...

Has anyone done a "tying the knot" ceremony within your ceremony? I'm wanting to incorporate this into our overall ceremony and would like to know where you did it within the ceremony?

What would be a good price range for a photographer and videographer as a package deal?

Any good resources for planning timelines ? For example: Anything recommended to be done at the 1.5 year mark, or most places book 1 year out max? Anybody start planning at this time? Any...

My fiancé and I found a nice venue price wise but….. we have to do EVERYTHING. I don’t feel like we should be stressed with that but he likes the price. What should I do?

Hello! I'm trying to make my wedding as sustainable as possible. Unfortunately, we can't wash glasses at the bar so we either need 1,000 glasses or plastic cups. I'm considering using compostable cups...

Hi everyone, and a big hello to all the 2022 brides! This is our year!! So my question is currently our color swatches are burgundy and navy blue as we’re having a fall wedding in October! I’m...

My fiance and I are getting married in 2023 in our friend's backyard. I have NO CLUE where to even start for catering or what the best choice would be. Do we pick someone who cooks in the house...

We were just informed by our venue that we need to provide them with event insurance. I've seen so many different companies ( with varying prices) on the web. Which company are you using? Also, has...

How far out from a destination wedding do you generally send invites? We're sending out save the dates within the next week or two for our January 2023 wedding in Puerto Rico. When would be a good...

When did everyone start going through the legal process of changing your last name? Did you need a lawyer?

Hi! This afternoon I went to the post office to have them weigh my invitation before we send them out. I asked what the process was to get them hand-canceled and the lady helping me explained it. Then...

Searching for my tribe!! The more I read about other peoples’ weddings and wedding planning processes, the more I am starting to feel like I am the odd (wo)man out. I guess I am what you would call a...