Planning too much

Hi brides,


I think I bit more than I could chew. I hand picked my bridesmaids because they all are special to me. However, none of them are good at planning…at all! My MOH attempted to plan a bachelorette for me but then that fell through (long story) and I told her I’ll just try to plan it myself and she agreed. She also isn’t planning my bridal shower, my mom pretty much took over it and I’m helping her because she doesn’t really know how to order things online (one time she almost fell for a scam). I thought I could handle all of it, but with planning the wedding, the bridal shower and the bachelorette, I’m just bummed that I’ll end up cancelling the bachelorette altogether because I just don’t have any time for it. I feel like I’ve been a pretty chill bride and all my bridesmaids have to do is pick their dress and show up the day of the wedding. I guess this is just more of a rant then really asking a question but I’m just really bummed I won’t have a bachelorette before I get married.