Planning Stress

I was NOT going to hiring a coordinator when I started planning and one day realized that my wedding day will be way too stressful without one so I made room in the budget!
Wedding planning is hella stressful because you constantly feel like you don't know what you're doing. Planning a huge event like this is something that people go to school for and train for for years before doing professionally. And we're just regular people? Planning a giant event? And being judged heavily on it? Not fair. I totally get where you're coming from, but at the end of the day it's your wedding. Do what makes you happy. Invite the people you want to invite, eat what you want to eat, get the flowers that make you incredibly happy.
People will love to nitpick the tiny details of your wedding, but the people who do that will find the things to complain about no matter what. The opinions that matter to you are the ones of your closest loved ones who will see how happy and I love you are on your wedding day, and will remember spending time with you on the most wonderful day of your life.So drink a glass of wine, take a deep breath, until yourself that you can do this!

View Quoted Comment Thanks so much for the advice. Congrats to yall!

I developed a 3 month eye twitch haha so yes- it is stressful.

I think it can be very stressful. I’m not sure when you are getting married, but I find planning early helps with the stress. If you cannot afford a coordinator maybe try and get help from a family member or a friend who has planned a wedding before. I’m sure it will be a beautiful day!