Planning Session With moh

I have never had a planning session with my MOH because she only has 3 duties. To show up, take pictures with me, and help me go to the bathroom throughout the night 😂 as far as the bachelorette goes, she wanted to surprise me so there’s no planning necessary in my situation

I planned my wedding with the person I'm marrying, not my MOH.

My MOH was my sister, she offered to design my invitations so we discussed that. She offered to host my Bachelorette and Bridal Shower so I answered any questions she had on my preferences and that was that.

I did all of the planning with my husband.

If you MOH offered to help that's great. I would bounce ideas off of her but I wouldn't overload her with questions or give her a to-do list.

I did not have any planning sessions with anyone other than my husband, my wedding planner, and the venue's coordinator.

I’ve talked to her about how I want things to go on day of with bridesmaids, the groomsmen attire since she’s in charge of helping with it, and got her opinion on when we should have the rehearsal dinner. Other than that I haven’t asked much.

My MOH lives out of town so I didn't have any planning sessions with her. She was in town for my bridal shower tho and I showed her the venue and shared thd ideas I had so far.

View Quoted Comment My fiancé is very involved with the planning of our wedding. I was referring more to the bachelorette party, bridesmaid things, and bridal shower. Things neither my fiancé nor I would be a part of

View Quoted Comment My fiancé is very involved with the planning of our wedding. I was referring more to the bachelorette party, bridesmaid things, and bridal shower. Things neither my fiancé nor I would be a part of

I’ve gotten together with my maids of honor to discuss what I want to do for my bachelorette party and I’ve bounced ideas off of them! We will also get to together to plan a dance that the wedding party will do!

View Quoted Comment I do have down to talk about the bridal shower and the bachelorette party because she did offer to plan both ( the shower with my mom) and I was just trying to get some points down so we don’t forget anything we need to talk about since we’re both really busy.

View Quoted Comment Okay cool! We haven’t picked a venue or anything for my bridal shower so that could definitely be a talking point!

View Quoted Comment These are good points. I should definitely run through day of things with her

View Quoted Comment Haha going to the bathroom is a good point

View Quoted Comment That’s so cool! My sister is trying to convince my bridesmaids to do a flash mob

We've never had a planning "session" but things we have talked about include dress colors (I showed her swatches) and dress styles, as well as how everyone will go about ordering their dresses (we are using azazie, so I invited her to my showroom). My matron of honor is planning my bachelorette party so I gave her some general ideas of themes or activities (DISNEY!!) and she's going from there. You could also talk about HAMU, shoes/accessories, and bouquets if your bridesmaids will be involved with those things.

Nothing. My MOH was only to be there for me on the day of. She wasn't involved with any of the planning since it wasn't her wedding.

I didn't have a planning session with her. For my shower my mom and MOH started texting and then made a text group with the bridesmaids. For my bachelorette, my MOH and I were hanging out one night and she brought it up and we started planning. The planning for both of those didn't start until the wedding was 7 months away, so I wouldn't expect much planning to start until after the holidays

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Thank you! This was really helpful!

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There are aspects shes going to be planning like my bachelorette party and bridal shower and that is going to be what we are discussing and I wanted to make sure I didnt leave anything out. If you have any input to share, I'm all ears

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That's essentially what we were planning on doing just sitting down and discussing everything so she can ask me what she wants to ask and I can do the same. Just trying to be prepared so I don't forget to mention anthing