GeekyChicBride
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Planning Session With moh

GeekyChicBride, on November 12, 2019 at 5:30 PM Posted in Planning 1 31
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I'm scheduling a planning session with my MOH and I know I had a lot of things I wanted to discuss with her and now that I'm sitting trying to outline out all of my thoughts, I can't remember half of the things I wanted to discuss with her! What have you guys discussed with your MOH's or have planned to discuss with your MOH during a planning session? TIA everyone!

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  • Izzy
    Devoted April 2021
    Izzy
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    I have never had a planning session with my MOH because she only has 3 duties. To show up, take pictures with me, and help me go to the bathroom throughout the night 馃槀 as far as the bachelorette goes, she wanted to surprise me so there鈥檚 no planning necessary in my situation
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn Online
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    I planned my wedding with the person I'm marrying, not my MOH.

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  • Lauren
    Super September 2019
    Lauren
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    My MOH was my sister, she offered to design my invitations so we discussed that. She offered to host my Bachelorette and Bridal Shower so I answered any questions she had on my preferences and that was that.

    I did all of the planning with my husband.

    If you MOH offered to help that's great. I would bounce ideas off of her but I wouldn't overload her with questions or give her a to-do list.

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  • earias
    Champion December 2017
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    I did not have any planning sessions with anyone other than my husband, my wedding planner, and the venue's coordinator.

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  • B
    Dedicated March 2020
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    I鈥檝e talked to her about how I want things to go on day of with bridesmaids, the groomsmen attire since she鈥檚 in charge of helping with it, and got her opinion on when we should have the rehearsal dinner. Other than that I haven鈥檛 asked much.
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  • Marn茅
    Savvy February 2020
    Marn茅
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    My MOH lives out of town so I didn't have any planning sessions with her. She was in town for my bridal shower tho and I showed her the venue and shared thd ideas I had so far.
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  • GeekyChicBride
    Savvy September 2020
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    My fianc茅 is very involved with the planning of our wedding. I was referring more to the bachelorette party, bridesmaid things, and bridal shower. Things neither my fianc茅 nor I would be a part of
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  • GeekyChicBride
    Savvy September 2020
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    My fianc茅 is very involved with the planning of our wedding. I was referring more to the bachelorette party, bridesmaid things, and bridal shower. Things neither my fianc茅 nor I would be a part of
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  • Caitlin
    Dedicated August 2020
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    I鈥檝e gotten together with my maids of honor to discuss what I want to do for my bachelorette party and I鈥檝e bounced ideas off of them! We will also get to together to plan a dance that the wedding party will do!
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  • GeekyChicBride
    Savvy September 2020
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    I do have down to talk about the bridal shower and the bachelorette party because she did offer to plan both ( the shower with my mom) and I was just trying to get some points down so we don鈥檛 forget anything we need to talk about since we鈥檙e both really busy.
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  • GeekyChicBride
    Savvy September 2020
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    Okay cool! We haven鈥檛 picked a venue or anything for my bridal shower so that could definitely be a talking point!
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  • GeekyChicBride
    Savvy September 2020
    GeekyChicBride
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    These are good points. I should definitely run through day of things with her
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  • GeekyChicBride
    Savvy September 2020
    GeekyChicBride
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    Haha going to the bathroom is a good point
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  • GeekyChicBride
    Savvy September 2020
    GeekyChicBride
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    That鈥檚 so cool! My sister is trying to convince my bridesmaids to do a flash mob
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  • Dayna
    Devoted March 2021
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    We've never had a planning "session" but things we have talked about include dress colors (I showed her swatches) and dress styles, as well as how everyone will go about ordering their dresses (we are using azazie, so I invited her to my showroom). My matron of honor is planning my bachelorette party so I gave her some general ideas of themes or activities (DISNEY!!) and she's going from there. You could also talk about HAMU, shoes/accessories, and bouquets if your bridesmaids will be involved with those things.

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  • Sherry
    VIP September 2019
    Sherry
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    Nothing. My MOH was only to be there for me on the day of. She wasn't involved with any of the planning since it wasn't her wedding.

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  • B
    Super July 2018
    Brittany
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    I didn't have a planning session with her. For my shower my mom and MOH started texting and then made a text group with the bridesmaids. For my bachelorette, my MOH and I were hanging out one night and she brought it up and we started planning. The planning for both of those didn't start until the wedding was 7 months away, so I wouldn't expect much planning to start until after the holidays


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  • GeekyChicBride
    Savvy September 2020
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    Thank you! This was really helpful!

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  • GeekyChicBride
    Savvy September 2020
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    There are aspects shes going to be planning like my bachelorette party and bridal shower and that is going to be what we are discussing and I wanted to make sure I didnt leave anything out. If you have any input to share, I'm all ears

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  • GeekyChicBride
    Savvy September 2020
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    That's essentially what we were planning on doing just sitting down and discussing everything so she can ask me what she wants to ask and I can do the same. Just trying to be prepared so I don't forget to mention anthing

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