Picking between more or less expensive venue

Can you keep looking? I d probably try to find a more affordable venue with less deal breakers. You don't want to bust your budget with the venue, weddings get expensive real quick with often lots of unexpected costs at the end. Happy planning and good luck to you

Like Rose said, have you looked other places yet? You don't want to completely bust your budget on the venue. Trust me things get expensive FAST. You don't realize how expensive wedding vendors are, the extra fees that come along with them, as well as other stuff you just never thought about that get added on and it adds up super quick

I agree with the others. Costs do add up quickly, and it might be a lot more stress free to book the less expensive venue or look for another budget-friendly option. I don't think having a bar in the venue, highway etc is a big deal when it comes to guest comfort.

I wouldnt bank on cutting costs elsewhere honestly. Especially not a significant amount. If you have a specific design/style/aesthetic in mind it becomes really easy to just keep telling yourself you'll cut cost elsewhere and then you never do by the end because the options of the cut costs also become non-negotiables. Unless youre on a really tight timeline I would continue the search for other venues that more closely fit your budget but don't have some of the non-negotiables.
Also, from experience, being next door to a bar isnt always a bad thing. Check to see if they share liquor stock and if they are open extended hours because of the close proximity. Mine is adjacent to a bar and we can get access to any liquor, beer, wine, etc that the big bar has within our venue since they share storage space, and we can also be in the venue until 2am as long as alcohol is being sold in some capacity.

Going with a more expensive venue isn't a bad thing IF it's still within your budget (and that's a very big, important "if"). Ask yourself whether the deal-breakers at the cheaper venue are worth the extra $10k to avoid. Given that it's an all-inclusive, a lot of things will be covered, which could be a savings right there depending on how much you planned on allocating. But $10k also isn't a negligible amount of money either. Are they able to close doors at the cheaper venue to block out the excess noise?