Hello! I am trying to get to the bottom of this and hoping you all can help. We are getting married in a church with a Pastor officiating. When I ask, people always tell me you just make a donation to the church, and around here $100-$150 is typical. Then suddenly I've been hearing that because the pastor doesn't get paid from your donation, you should ALSO, tip the Pastor $100. All of these are sources from outside the church. It's FH's childhood church, I've never even been there, and he hasn't since his youth so I don't really know anyone close by to ask. It's also a 40 minute drive so hopping over is kinda out. I don't want to ask the Pastor and she be to polite to be honest. So, what did you all do/plan to do?