I'm thinking about having a party instead of a full on wedding reception. I'd like to get married in the courthouse or at the party venue with a small number of family and friends on 10.11.12 then have a big party later that evening. I want the party because I have NO desire to have a formal reception and a party suits us better as a couple (my fiance is a DJ). We just want to have fun celebrating with our friends. Do we need to have a formal reception?