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Beginner May 2017

Parents Not Invited?

Michael, on March 9, 2017 at 7:27 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 42

I was assaulted by my fiancé's step dads. For obvious reasons, I do not want him at our wedding...for the most part, neither does she. To make it even more interesting, her mom has said, if her step-dad isn't invited she won't come. Adding insult to injury, step-dad said if her bio-dad comes, the...

I was assaulted by my fiancé's step dads. For obvious reasons, I do not want him at our wedding...for the most part, neither does she. To make it even more interesting, her mom has said, if her step-dad isn't invited she won't come. Adding insult to injury, step-dad said if her bio-dad comes, the step-dad won't come. We're 72 days from the wedding and feel so lost and don't know what todo. It's so mentally draining. Any advise would help!

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  • CuteNickname
    Super July 2017
    CuteNickname ·
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    Do not invite anyone who will make you feel uneasy.

    I am not inviting my adoptive mother, the woman who raised me. We have essentially no relationship, she was and still is a raging alcoholic who abused and neglected me. I hesitated at first about what to do. I speak to her now and then on the phone, and she did ask me to send her an invitation even though she probably wouldn't attend. Ultimately I decided that I don't even want her to know when and where the wedding is. And I don't want any gifts from her. So I will not be sending her an invitation.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    I wouldn't invite any of them. They sound just awful.

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