Once again, Flagging non-vios is flagging abuse...

Mobile sucks because I can't see that a comment was flagged or hidden. It's just not there.

For those who think we just make shit up:

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Thanks for posting what some of us missed Beatrice. That is hilarious.

Way to go MNA for posting this!!! You totally should be a mod for WW!!

#voteyesforMNA

@Nikki: Wish I could be! I'm on here enough! Lol!!

Bump!

Jesus take the wheel.

Bumpity bump

I don't believe I saw her call anyone a "fatty" I read that she called you "grabby" and "alcoholic" but not fatties.

And frankly, in my opinion, she makes a very valid point that I whole heatedly agree with. Now I cannot speak about the flagging issue. I don't understand why that aspect of this conversation matters.

I'm wondering if the disconnect here is that some people aren't understanding that the wedding is for the couple and the reception is literally to thank the guests for coming. "It's my day" is true in the aspect that everyone is there to honor, love, and support you and your spouse. It's not true when you want to walk all over your loved ones. Just because they say they don't mind and will let you, doesn't mean you should.

Yes, she did use the word 'fatties' in a sentence. And chastised the posters here because they give advice to anyone who thinks a salad and a glass of water is an inappropriate wedding meal.

If that's so appropriate, maybe she should serve that too. You know, in solidarity with those she feels qualified to speak for and against.

@MrsSpenc *wholeheartedly

Lolololol "if you become butt hurt"

I miss everything lately!

The fatties comment must have been posted in a separate comment. The post that Beatrice posted did not include the use of the word fatties. I think her point was that we are all very fortunate and that we shouldn't look down on each other think we're better than others. Some people truly do the best they can. I don't believe they should be chastised because they didn't meet a society standard. At our wedding we provided beer, water, and lemonade as far as drinks went. I'm sure a lot of people on here would say that I mistreated my guests, but it was truly all I could afford.

Cracking up over here !!

@Mrs. Spenc -you missed an entire thread and now you are trying to gain insight from a couple of screenshots. Good luck with that! Also, you are one of the first to become anally agitated and white knight all over the place.

@MrsSpenc - There are many budgets across WW. And we all do the best that we can, while taking care of our guests. It is how some people present themselves on here that is tacky. It is not meeting "a society standard," it is being a gracious host. There are things that should come along with being a good host - whether it be at your house or at our wedding - and when special snowflakes come here thinking that their situation is different, they will be told about it by WW members.

Also, speaking generally to newer members, their ignorance of "hot topics" and questions that have been asked/answered many times can wear on active members. This is where/when the user is encouraged to "lurk" for a while. This is when you begin to understand how WW "works" and you get to learn a lot of the members' personalities.

There is also the issue of passive/aggressive comments, arguing that the rest of WW "doesn't know" what is best for the poster, and a lack of being humble that causes uproar on the forum. I will be the first to admit that I said/asked some stupid things when I first joined WW. And I was told about it. However, I took what was said to me and thought about it. I did not argue my point. I did not say "It's my day" and stomp my feet because nobody agreed with me. I stepped back, looked at the forum a while, then made my proper introduction and joined the discussion.

I'm not trying to white knight anything. I'm simply suggesting what her thought process may have been.

I'm not trying to white knight anything. I'm simply suggesting what her thought process may have been.