Ok, what's a mob to do about a bouquet toss?

I don't think this issue is controversial enough for you to be concerned or have a say. We are two brides so we are having a bouquet toss, we'll toss it together. We even considered allowing men on the floor since our whole wedding is against heteronormativity. Another thing we considered was allowing all guests on the floor and that if a married person caught it, it would be considered a "blessing to their marriage". But we never considered not doing it. Offer these suggestions if you're really concerned about leaving people out or singling others out. But it's really not that offensive or rude.

I would let it go for now. Being a soon to be bride myself, I have changed my mind dozens of times on various things. Chances are she will bring it up herself and then I would just ask her if she’s sure and explain your thought process. You can also suggesting asking her cousin (or single friends if she has any) what they think of it and if they would be happy to participate

Omg I didn't even realize how a part of this could be uncomfortable to the single peeps! I was thinking of doing the bouquet toss only because it's a fun traditional thing but now I'm having doubts...I didn't even stop to think if I have single ladies attending my wedding...

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My thought is, it doesn't single out single ladies because it also includes women in relationships. Technically it could even include engaged couples because they aren't actually married yet.

I'm in that age group where people seem to be getting engaged very often, so we have a lot of friends who are "almost there". They will have fun with it. But I can see it being uncomfortable in a different crowd.

@OP, keep in mind that this site, although helpful, isn't the end all be all. Even though people here tend to lean one way or another, you are still free to do what you wish with those opinions.