Officially asked my bridesmaid to be in wedding

I'm sure you did fine. People make such a big deal about asking bridesmaids and I think it puts more stress on you than it needs to. These are your friends. I am sure they were happy regardless of you feeling nervous.

For engagement pictures focus on each other and not the camera. One of the photographers I spoke with said he gives the couple a game to play or just something fun and silly to talk about so they have something to occupy their thoughts and aren’t freaking out about being photographed. Find a photographer whose work you love and trust them to direct you. I’m sure your photographs will turn out beautiful- don’t stress and don’t put too much pressure on yourselves (I know, easier said than done!). Good luck!

Yes to what Jessica said! A good photographer will know how to help both of you relax and enjoy your photoshoot!

Hey Anna!
I hate having my picture taken, I was dreading the engagement shoot.
Talked to my photographer before hand and when we met up I was relived that she was so helpful.
I focused on my fiancee and I didn't even notice the camera.
He kept me laughing, so the pictures came out natural.

I'm so fake in staged photos because I'm so uncomfortable.
If I can do it, anyone can
Can't wait to see your photos!❤

My husband and I were so tired from smiling and being pulled in so many directions at our wedding aha and I thought my photos would look like a forced smile but it was fine - I think your happiness of the day will shine through even if it feels tiring

For pictures, I agree that you should focus on each other rather than the camera. Photographers are used to engagement pictures being a couple's first time getting professional pictures done together and should be able to help you both relax if you are a bit tense.

View Quoted Comment Our photographer’s game was to have my FH seductively whisper the names of his favorite vegetables in my ear. I laughed so hard and it really helped break the tension.

But honestly, a good photographer will put you at ease! Only a few poses really felt weird to us.

View Quoted Comment That’s hilarious, great way to capture genuine laughter!