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AutumnBride
Expert October 2015

October brides- RSVP timeline?

AutumnBride, on July 2, 2015 at 11:12 AM

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Hey guys, we're getting close! I'm 10/17/15 and thinking of sending out invites August 3rd and asking for a reply date of September 7th. Do you think this is enough time for guests? What does your timeline look like?

Hey guys, we're getting close! I'm 10/17/15 and thinking of sending out invites August 3rd and asking for a reply date of September 7th. Do you think this is enough time for guests? What does your timeline look like?

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  • Nattie
    Super October 2015
    Nattie ·
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    I'm sending mine out August 1 with an RSVP of September 18. Still waiting on a few decorative pieces to add. Hotel block also expires September 18 and gives me 2 weeks to hunt people down in case of no responses.

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  • K
    Beginner October 2015
    Karley ·
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    I have the same wedding date! I am doing the same! I knew my colors and wedding invites from the time i met my FH. I saw these wedding invites before i was even engaged and we had never even talked marriage but i knew he was the one and i knew these invites were the ones and the price so i bought them for my future wedding and bam...i'm using them!

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  • K
    Beginner October 2015
    Karley ·
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    Any advice on hotel block...i haven't done one because my beach house (we live and own it here in FL) doesn't have any hotels nearby, hotels are all 8-10 miles away so i've been encouraging everyone to look into renting beach houses and all getting together and sharing it. I put house rental sites on my wedding website along with hotel information. i want everyone to stay in houses near our beach house because then they won't have to drive or get transportation. we are trying to stay away from renting a bus or transportation. my family all has to travel here (they are coming from MN so i don't even know what family of mine is coming)

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  • Catherine
    Expert September 2015
    Catherine ·
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    With a reply date Sept. 7th, just know that you won't get any mail that day.

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  • OG Kristen
    Master October 2015
    OG Kristen ·
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    We're sending invites mid August and our reply date is 9/21.

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  • GrayCatVintage
    Master October 2015
    GrayCatVintage ·
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    Wedding date: 10/10/15

    Invites going out on August 1

    RSVP by September 1

    Need totals in by last week of September.

    This gave a decent window for "stragglers"

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  • Paulina
    Expert October 2015
    Paulina ·
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    Mine is 09/21 and sending out mid August.

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  • Miss S Dot
    Expert October 2015
    Miss S Dot ·
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    Well my answer is going to vary from everyone else because I am that super cautious bride that sent out invitations at the end of May because 90% of my guest are out of state and out of the country. My RSVP date was August 1st. Did that strategically to allow for the fact that we may need to chase people down etc. and since I'm buying decor for my centerpieces, I'd like to know a generally number early rather than later. Lots of my purchases have been online so I'm not taking any chances.

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  • AutumnBride
    Expert October 2015
    AutumnBride ·
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    Thanks for all of your feedback! It sounds like everyone has a fairly similar timeline... I'm glad to see that! Do you believe we are at the point where we're sending out invites?? We've had an 18 month engagement so I'm ecstatic to finally at at this point!

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  • CJ
    Expert October 2015
    CJ ·
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    I am so glad someone started this thread. I had no idea what I was doing. Thanks for all the ideas, ladies! Smiley smile

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  • UofMichiganGirl
    Expert October 2015
    UofMichiganGirl ·
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    Our invites went out a month ago but that was mainly because 80% of our guests are out of towners. The date is 9/4.

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  • Mrs. P
    Expert October 2015
    Mrs. P ·
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    We're sending ours out the last week in July/first week in August because we have almost all OOT guests, and our RSVP date is October 1st. Our venue/caterer need the final count 2 weeks before, so that gives us a little time to follow up with people.

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  • MrsA
    Master October 2015
    MrsA ·
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    We're sending out at the end of July with a Sept 8th.

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  • FutureMrs.Monasterski
    Super October 2015
    FutureMrs.Monasterski ·
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    I'm sending mine out in the middle of July with a RSVP of 9/1

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  • MrsTex
    Super October 2015
    MrsTex ·
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    I'll be sending my invites out first week of August and asking for return by 10/4. Giving me a week to follow up on any floaters before my venue needs the number.

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  • Heather
    VIP October 2015
    Heather ·
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    My invitations are ready to go lol. Sending them out first week in August with my RSVP date as 9/2/15. Between both families they are horrible with RSVP'ing. Apparently my mother in law had to call her family for RSVP's for my bridal shower. She told me "I will call my family bc I know they won't call your mom." I can just see it now her calling them for their wedding RSVP's. I have to let my venue know 2 weeks before, so I'm giving myself more time to call people for their RSVP's. So I don't stress.

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  • HeavenlyBride
    Super October 2015
    HeavenlyBride ·
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    My RSVP date is 9/17/15

    Date TwinSmiley smile

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  • C
    Just Said Yes October 2015
    Carrie ·
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    Sending out invitations late July, RSVP Aug. 25th (about a month out before wedding for caterer).

    I think it also depends on if you sent out save the dates - if you did not, then you should send out invites a lot earlier if having out of town guests.

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  • M
    Super October 2015
    MMaru ·
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    I'm planning to send our invites out as soon as we have all the addresses. Our RSVP date is 9/1. I am SO ANXIOUS to get even a general headcount so I can do more DIY and planning!

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