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Just Said Yes June 2017

Not using wedding colors for invitations!

LadyS, on January 29, 2017 at 9:04 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 1 16

Soooooo... my fiance and I decided that we wanted our save the dates and website to be navy/white/gold based on the colors we decided to wear during engagement photos. Those colors are completely different than our wedding colors though lol. I really feel like it shouldn't matter/we shouldn't care but some family feel strongly otherwise. Time to crank out invitations for our June wedding. Thoughts? Would you make the invitations match the wedding colors or just go with it matching everything else?

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Latest activity by chaos05, on January 29, 2017 at 6:59 PM
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    Just Said Yes October 2018
    Chassitie ·
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    I using different colors as well... I think it will keep my guest in suspense

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  • Bee
    Master April 2017
    Bee ·
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    I wouldn't pay attention to the colors not matching. As long as the formality matches the wedding, you're good to go. Meaning don't send a rustic looking invite for a formal event. Don't worry about the colors! Eta: just noticed you mentioned stds and website, not invite. In that case I really wouldn't care about the colors.

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  • A&L
    Master April 2017
    A&L ·
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    I usually pay attention to color on the invite and avoid them at all cost wearing them, so I don't end up matching the bridal party.

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  • Pippa
    Devoted August 2017
    Pippa ·
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    No one will remember what the invitations looked like while they are at the wedding.

    I agree w/ Bee, as long as the formality matches, you're a-okay.

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  • Jamie
    Master May 2017
    Jamie ·
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    I used black & white invites. My colors at my wedding are blush, ivory, gold, & navy. I don't think it matters.

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  • Cheri
    Dedicated September 2017
    Cheri ·
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    My colors are royal blue and gray. My invites are navy blue and blush, I just made sure to tie my rustic theme into the invites.

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  • FutureMrs.DCT
    VIP March 2017
    FutureMrs.DCT ·
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    Our STDs and invites don't match our wedding colors. FH is a geographer, and he loves maps, I find really pretty invites that had kind of a vintage map on them. I loved them, so that is what we used. Our wedding colors are royal, light blue and silver.

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    Dedicated April 2017
    Monique ·
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    My colors are plum and teal and I used black and gold for my invites

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  • Jenna
    Super July 2017
    Jenna ·
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    I would do your wedding colors. My colors are black and white stripes with accents of purple and gold and my wedding invitations are black gold and white but not stripes they have a different design

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  • SuYa
    Master April 2017
    SuYa ·
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    Bump

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  • Christinanyc
    Master December 2016
    Christinanyc ·
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    I agree with @Bee

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  • ToBeMrsWatson
    Super August 2017
    ToBeMrsWatson ·
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    Ok so now i know that the invites dont necessarily have to be the same color scheme as the wedding.... i was having no luck finding anything i liked!

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  • MAMW
    VIP August 2013
    MAMW ·
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    I had cream colored invitations and my wedding colors were navy and whatever color you'd say a sunflower was. I mean this in the nicest way but it's not that serious Smiley smile Don't even worry about it. Just pick the invitations that you like that match the formality of your wedding!

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  • Mb2Md
    VIP November 2022
    Mb2Md ·
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    My invitations were black and gold but everything else was dark red ...not a big deal. It can work !

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    Just Said Yes June 2017
    LadyS ·
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    Awesomeness!!! Not the girliest of girls and really don't care about colors like that lol thought maybe I was missing something! Thanks ladies!

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  • chaos05
    Super October 2017
    chaos05 ·
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    I'm OCD. I'm all about things matching.

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