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Just Said Yes March 2018

Not invited to my bf cousin wedding

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nancy, on May 23, 2017 at 7:52 AM

Hello everyone just wanted some opinions. So ive been living with my boyfriend for 3 years im currently 5 months pregnant with his child. My family invites and includes my boyfriend in every event. His cousin did not invite me to her wedding, she said just him. Recently his cousin, aunts uncles etc made comments stating they better be invited to the baby shower etc. So ive been doing my best to find a resonable place to make sure i dont exclude anyone for the baby shower. But yet im not invited to the wedding.

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kittycow · on May 23, 2017 at 11:18 PM
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Sounds like you're just the incubator for a new family member since they're cheerful about the baby but don't recognize you as a person. If my SO went to the wedding alone after this slap in the face to me, it would permanently change the way I look at him. I wouldn't invite them to any events since I'm such a nothing to them. This would make me cry,actually.
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Nick & Joi · on May 23, 2017 at 11:19 PM
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Very rude, ask your bf to handle
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Becky · on May 23, 2017 at 11:24 PM
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This is insane, rude, and ridiculous to the nth degree. I agree with @Michelle. Decline and do not invite them to anything (wedding, showers etc). @MAMW has a phenomenal point about boundaries and access to children. You should definitely take a leaf (or page or chapter) out of that book
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Andrea · on May 23, 2017 at 11:39 PM
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Wow, what horrible people. Your boyfriend doesn't even need to inquire, I'd go ahead and write this cousin off. No way would they be getting anything more than a 'c u next tuesday' look from me at the next family reunion.
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