Hey there! I'm struggling with some disappointment here and I guess I'm just looking for solidarity.
My MoH can't come to my wedding. Totally not her fault - she's stuck in another country and feels really bad, and I will miss her a lot. If she were here, I know the situation would be different. I still have five bridesmaids and a large family I'm thankful for, but no one is stepping up to take on a bridal shower or bachelorette party. I know they're not obligated, and I don't want anyone to feel obligated, but I'd hoped someone would want to. And yes, I've dropped hints. My wedding is ten weeks away.
I've given up on the bridal shower, but decided I'd go ahead and be mature about it and plan my own small bachelorette party. Nothing crazy or expensive - one afternoon, in-state. I made it as easy and low pressure as possible and sent out an email. I've heard back from one of the girls about it, and another can't come because she's already going to another bachelorette party that weekend (a weekend in Vegas! How do so many people have friends and family willing to take so much time for them??)
So now I feel even worse
I know these celebrations aren't a big deal in the grand scheme of things - I'm having a wedding and get to spend the rest of my life with my best friend/husband. That's what matters most, and I really am trying to focus on that. But honestly, I'm disappointed in my friends and family and that's not a great feeling to have heading into the wedding.
Anyone out there in the same boat?