Weird, I know. My FH asked my FBIL to be his best man, then shortly afterwards, we found out he would be deployed to Korea for a year. My FMIL would like us to still list his name on the program. I'm having one of my students who really artistic handwrite them and then I'll scan it and send to a printer. I want it to look this picture, but with a few tweaks. I am going to add "Maid of Honor" because my MOH would appreciate it, but then it feels like I need to add "Best Man" above my FBIL's name. My question: How should I word it? Honorary Best Man? Or should I write something like "serving overseas"
Or, does everyone else just think this idea is crazy, and we shouldn't list him on it, since he's not going to be there? Be honest dear friends 
