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Alyssa
Just Said Yes November 2022

Need help picking headpiece, earrings and veil.

Alyssa, on February 11, 2022 at 2:10 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 3 5

Hi folks, I said yes to my dress a few weeks ago after a whirlwind journey and many conflicting emotions! It is by far the most dramatic option I tried on, and it totally captures how I want to feel on that day. It presents some interesting challenges, however, because I had been anticipating something with an exposed back, and/or cape veil, and this dress is quite a different direction. For one, it's very silver and glittery - I've attached both the model pictures and pics of how it looked in the store for reference. I had been thinking I would wear all gold jewelry and hair accessories. It's also long sleeved and has a high neck and closed back. So my questions are:

1. What are my options for a headpiece? Should I stick with antique silver or can I pull off mixed metals with all that glittering crystal detail? Could I even do a florals headpiece with some of my bouquet flowers (dark purple or burgundy) for contrast?

2. Veil! Should I even bother? Everything I'm reading says that if you have a train you need a cathedral veil - and I'll have the overskirt that I'll be wearing for pictures and the ceremony. But I'm afraid of a veil being overkill with how detailed and dramatic this dress already is.

3. I want to do long earrings - should I stick with pearl or crystal? Or could something with a little gold work? I was also looking at a few options of raw stone (i.e. Rachel Mulherin) for an interesting contrast.

Any thoughts are very helpful!


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5 Comments

Latest activity by Candace, on March 7, 2022 at 9:39 PM
  • Michelle
    Champion December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    Wear whatever you want. No one will notice or care if metals are mixed. The veil is personal preference. Most fashion “rules” are personal preference of the person who decides them and don’t apply to everyone. Whatever you pick will be beautiful because you are happy wearing them.
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  • Orianna
    Devoted December 2022
    Orianna ·
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    First, that dress is absolutely gorgeous. Its so dramatic on top (and I love that!) that personally, I don't think you need the veil and I think it would be beautiful with some really simple stud earrings. I also think a flower crown headpiece (or flower barrette if you want to go that direction) would be gorgeous as well! I don't know what your colors are, but all I can think of is deep jewel tone mums and baby's breath in a headband or a crown.

    But at the end of the day, Michelle is right, do whatever makes you happy. if you want a massive cathedral veil, go with it! If you want a bird cage veil, absolutely! If you want big giant earrings, girl get it! Mix those metals, do whatever makes you happy.

    Either way, I love the dramatic bead and crystal work of that dress. Its stunning.

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  • L
    Super August 2023
    Lunajay ·
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    Love the dress is beautiful Smiley love . For me I would not wear a veil but maybe a hairpins or piece. But yes I would wear long earring

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  • Rosie
    Master February 2022
    Rosie ·
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    I agree with the others, it is SO dramatic and sparkly I honestly think you could do without a veil to really give it space to shine. If you've always dreamed of a veil though, I'd go for a completely plain, raw edge drop veil that would add to the drama but still allows the detail to show through. Like this:

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    I also think it's quite a warm silver, so mixing metals would be totally fine, IMO!

    what a beautiful dress. You're going to look like an absolute queen!

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  • Candace
    Super March 2022
    Candace ·
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    Just had to comment that this dress is so gorgeous!! 😍
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