I need some unbiased advice....
My wedding is on July 16th 2016. Most deposits are paid and I've already bought a dress. My fiance and I have been together for 5 and a half years and have an almost 3 year old child together. We do love each other and I thought that marrying him was going to make me so happy. Until now. The closer the wedding gets and the more deposits we pay, the more real everything gets and I'm starting to FREAK OUT! The denial I've been blinded by for all these years is fading. I'm seeing things more clearly. Things like: we are never on the same page, often disagreeing, don't have the same values or beliefs, don't want the same things in life etc... he's also just not moving forward in life, he has a crappy job, still smokes a bunch of weed and constantly goes out with friends to "grab a beer." I wanted so badly for my son to have an intact family that I ignored the red flags. Now I feel like I want to call the whole thing off.. any advice would be helpful. Thanks
