My wedding flowers were disappointing

Maybe someone who knows more about flowers can manage my expectations?
My wedding flowers cost about $6700. A bulk of the cost was our ceremony arch. I ordered an arch, bouquet, 15 table arrangements, 3 corsages, and 6 boutonnieres.
Most of the flowers were kinda droopy and wilted by the time it was the ceremony.
All of the boutonnieres and corsages were wilted by the time came. My grooms boutonniere looked dead in our photos. Those were the MOST disappointing considering the other vendoes only charge $15 and she charged $35 for a droopy carnation.
My bouquet also was droopy but luckily she replaced the drooping flowers.
My ceremony arch flowers were all slightly wilted. Mind you they were outside since 1 pm and our ceremony was at 5. 70°.
Also the table arrangements were just 1 tiny bouquet in a vase. For $150 per table. Am I missing something?? Is this normal?? Never seen slightly droopy/wilted flowers at a wedding.
Our florist insisted her team will show up early to prevent people from stealing the vases.. they showed up an hour after it was over and 5 went missing. Florist proceeds to let me know she's going to charge me for them. I literally found them on Amazon for $10. Meanwhile she told me she was going to invoice me $500 bc they're special curated pieces she finds at vintage shops and such.