My stepdad is REALLY getting on my nerves

You need to move. That would drive me NUTS!

It is almost as bad as living with him, ALMOST. He is why I moved in with my FH after dating for 6 months when I transferred colleges, instead of moving back into m parents' house. He drives me crazy and we do not get along at all.

He is acting ridiculous. I wouldnt be adding anymore until he pays what your owed as it is. Is he paying you more for adding more to it? I would say if I dont answer the phone dont come banging on the door I am busy doing something and I will call you when I have time.

YIKES! that would suck. i'd move quick status.

We haven't discussed an additional price yet, but we will. Both FH and I are attending school full-time and working, so just because last week was our spring break doesn't mean we weren't doing NOTHING.

@Teresa, sadly our complex is cheap and close to campus, so moving out of the complex is out of the question. I think I'm going to have a talk with my mom and tell her coming over to our apartment unannounced is not ok. That's like going to someone's house without telling them you are coming. RUDE! Just because we live in the same complex doesn't make it any less rude.

You really need to set some ground rules!

@Mary, yes we do. And he has the nerve to get pissed when we don't answer the door! It is our apartment. We weren't expecting company.

Why dont you start showing up at his place for no reason whenever you feel like? maybe he'll get the hint..

Say "dad, You know we are young and like to have sex a lot, sometimes we won't answer the door because we're doing the nasty" lol that should shut him up!

I have an idea -- start moaning and making sex sounds when he comes banging at the door. He probably will no longer come unannounced! Ha. That is pretty bad though...

Tell him to get another job to pay you what you are owed..that way you get your owed money and he won't have as much time to come banging at your door. That's annoying though...I can't even imagine, did they move in there after you and FH?

Wow u r a better daughter than me! ;p

yes too busy having sex etc..........

i used to have a sahm galpal who wanted to pick oranges from my backyard when i'm not home and unannounced! cheap & rudew/ too much time!

@love, yes they moved in after us. I moved in with FH Oct 2008. My parents moved out of there house and to Texas July 2009 and moved back and into our apartment complex Nov/Dec 2009.

Do your parents own it? then it might be hard to yell at them ;p

Haha no!

Wow I give you a lot of credit!!! I would tell them to stop following me Hopefully they will learn to back off some.

Luckily it is just my stepdad. But my mom will take care of it hopefully.

Oh my goodness, you need to move!! That's ridiculous, you can run but you can't hide. I'm the type that takes a lot and then blows up big so I can see myself blowing my stack and being really ugly.

He has called me, no lie, 5 times since I made this post and he is back again at 10 p.m.! banging on the door. My FH and I refuse to answer the door. There is nothing he could possibly want besides bitching about the extra pictures being up. This is ridiculous. If my mom doesn't do anything (she worked until 10 tonight) then we are seriously moving.