I have been with my FH for 10 years when we got engaged. My parents were so excited and told me whatever I want but understand money. I felt very blessed but to me I don't want a big expensive wedding. Now all of sudden its expensive i have only booked my venue 6 months in. I turned down a country club that they liked that was expensive and booked with a hall for $500 however, I have to plan and do everything. When I first got engaged we sat down and talked about when the wedding will be and money. I said either July 2020 or July 2021. My parents said they would prefer a two year engagement because of money. We are now a year and half out and we have barely planned anything. I mention how catering is a huge step that i want to get taken care of next. My dad made a comment "oh we arent even going to book catering till janurary 2021". I inside freaked out. The whole point of us having a 2 year engagement was so wedding planning wasnt built up and stressful near the end. I would rather pay in sums now till then rather than all at once.
I am trying to plan a cheap wedding and not be stressed with last min planning. When i booked a hall. So having to do and plan everything is getting to me and my parents just dont understand that. I thought the whole point of having to wait 2 years was to give us time to plan not wait a year out. Not sure what to do or how to feel. Just feel defeated on planning anything with my wedding already.