My Groom Keeps adding to our Bridal Party!! Anybody else having this issue..my wedding us 32 days away😓

Is there a way you can tell him that maybe he can make that person an usher instead or just walk in the processional but not necessarily stand up there ?

View Quoted Comment I like this idea! I’d also use the support of they may feel like a last minute add versus a pre-planned add!

View Quoted Comment It just everything is printed and set. I don't like last minute things. Throws my routine off. My wedding planner is not happy..lol

View Quoted Comment That's a good idea!! I'm going to suggest this. Thank you!!

People will assume he was unsure he could be there, so it did not get printed on programs and such. No need to reprint. Don't worry about it. My now Hubby's oldest brothers and families were having trouble with visas, coming from Italy, Homeland Security issues with their business travel the Middle East . So he gave up on them , asked 2 other brothers, and the 2 other GM friends. They surprised everyone . Not on seating charts, not on program, or sign announcing wedding party. Everyone noticed, and said, how nice, to see brothers together. No big deal. Only you sweat the details. Relax. People are fine either such things. Planner should shrug it off.

View Quoted Comment So true, but I told him no more additions. He was already coming to the wedding, but my fiance was not sure if he would be committed to be in the wedding, so he was like, in the beginning just invite him only. But like you said push forward... it's almost over, thank God❤

Hang in there ! Some time in the beginning of the last month, suddenly none of the troublesome things got to me. I got all dreamy and romantic. I remember my Dad telling people I had moved to the planet of smiling happiness. All stress, gone. The RSVP we're all sent in but 2, who had called. Every vendor checked. And things planned began to just fall into place. Put all your worries on your planner's shoulders. Have a long and happy marriage, that is what counts!

View Quoted Comment I know, I would just use that excuse to your FH to convince him why they wouldn’t want to be asked this late in the game!

View Quoted Comment You're so right. Thank you so much I needed to hear this ❤ I will put it on her, and let her handle everything. Thank you for the well wishes Judith❣

View Quoted Comment Exactly Emily..😑 it's too much

View Quoted Comment Any progress on this? Is he still trying?

View Quoted Comment Well Emily, he went ahead and made a reservation for him to get fitted. Do I think he is going to follow thru..no...because I checked the reservation and he hadn't gone yet. So if he does not by the 10th, he wont be able to. He is already invited, so we will see what happens.