My Friend Wants To Get Engaged....At My Wedding

Hell to the NO , girl. Tell him you love him but he needs to pick a different day... like Halloween, Thanksgiving, her birthday, Christmas, Passover, Easter.......see? There are MANY other days.

He can take her outside, after your wedding is over (or coming to a close) and do it then. Not before, not during. After and he should respect your wishes.

Lol rosemary wow that must have been interesting to say the least. i think my friend will be ok with waiting until the end of the night i hope

Mrs. cheapskate i wanted to say no at first, but i dont want to take away the day from them since its their anniversary and i understand that that is important to him when it comes to proposing

I'm sorry but i counted 2 am on my wedding night still my wedding day. I would have him do something after as well... you could help by distracting her while he got set up or something but yea here's another vote for after (or the 11:59 if it's THAT important). Honestly he'll just "retell" it saying the night of our anniversary, so hopefully he sees after the reception as not a big deal

No way

Please post an update after you speak with him. I would imagine he would understand if he's a good friend of yours.

@uber also my decision would be how many people she knows there. If she doesn't know that many people maybe she would be less attention-hogish? like if i was going to my husband's friends wedding and he proposed although i'd be excited i wouldnt even know that many people to brag to

I'm still giggling about the "the calm the f*ck down stick" I know soooooo many people who need to get hit with it on a daily basis lol

Preface: I have only read the first page of comments:

Is there some place (outside your venue, and not in front of your guests), that he would be able to take her for a "walk" and have it all set up for their proposal...that way you still get to party and not have to work it into your wedding day, and they can have their own intimate moment alone

ETA: I just skimmed the rest and it looks like he wants to have a public proposal. If you are absolutely sure this doesn't bother you, then I don't see anything wrong with the last (or second to last) dance near the end of the night. That way the day is 98% about you and your FH and only 2% about them haha. I still don't know how I would react if a friend approached me about this though.

No! Its your day.

Chelsea they should sell calm the f*ck down sticks lol

e=mc2 she knows my performer crew so maybe 15 people in total that will be attending

future flaherty our venue is my backyard so outside is just outside the tent where if its not raining a lot of people will be around the bonfires so there's really nowhere he can take her thats away from the party, unless they want to go next door into the cemetery lol

Absolutely not. It's your day.

Holy crap rosemary lol you need to write a book about all that

Tell him how awkward his girlfriend will feel getting engaged at your wedding.

Lol rosemary i feel the same way, id love a calm week where nothing huge occurs, give me some boredom please life! lol

Onawho him and i both know that bitch wont feel awkward lol

This came up on here before and my advice was to tell the boyfriend that she deserves her own day. She wouldn't want her engagement to be remembered as the day of her friend's wedding.

Fmp you know, shes such a want to be in the spotlight all the time kind of girl that telling him she'd hate sharing the moment with me might make him change his mind hmmmm

I would tell him maybe not during the wedding or reception... That should be something that she remembers, and is special to her - as we all know! - I would tell him that it can happen that day, but you would prefer it not to be associated with the wedding, because the wedding is your day... the engagement part is her special time. I would ask him to do it before the wedding.