The girl I have been best friends with for the last two years and I had a falling out about two months prior to my engagement. Around the same time a new girl started at work and we had so much in common we became really close. She lives about an hour away from me and my fiancé and I would go stay with her and her husband on some weekends. My fiancé proposed while we were on vacation in Mexico and when we got home my new work Bestfriend was so excited and wanted to help in every way. I even unofficially said she was my MOH. About two weeks after I got engaged my long term Bestfriend and I reconnected and resolved our issues. My work Bestfriend was VERY unhappy about this and basically threw a fit. I told her that my long term Bestfriend was important to me and will be apart of the wedding. This only made things worse. I asked them each to go with me yesterday to help me look for venues with my fiancé and parents. They both came and my long term Bestfriend was full of ideas support and encouragement. My work Bestfriend on the other hand was rude and standoffish. She show down everything I said and made me feel like I had to coddle her the whole time. It hurt my feelings very badly , and I’m second guessing what I want her role to be. She 100% thinks she’s my maid of honor but I haven’t formally asked her. What do I do ? I have only been friend with this girl for 3 months but I do have to see her everyday and don’t want to hurt her feelings. But i also don’t want her to ruin my day and I feel closer to the other girl. I need advice on what to do ... please help...
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