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HLW to HLV
Super December 2015

Ms. vs Miss. for early 30's

HLW to HLV, on July 18, 2015 at 5:55 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 23

Should I use Ms. or Miss. on the invites f or ladies in their early 30's / late 20's? We have single ladies and unmarried couples I need this advise for. Google has mixed info.

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Latest activity by VWCat, on July 19, 2015 at 11:27 PM
  • FFW
    Master August 2016
    FFW ·
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    Ms. For all unmarried ladies.

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  • ZeldaBride
    Master April 2017
    ZeldaBride ·
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    Miss applies more to very young girls, like 16 and under. Ms is more appropriate for all others.

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  • Monica SC
    Master October 2015
    Monica SC ·
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    No Miss for anyone over the age of 15.

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  • Annie & Javi
    Master October 2015
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    I used Ms. for all unmarried women.

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  • FormerUser
    Master July 2015
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    Ms.

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  • Mrs. Lav
    Master November 2015
    Mrs. Lav ·
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    Yup, no miss after they're adolescents. You're probably okay up to 16 or max 18, but that's it.

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  • HLW to HLV
    Super December 2015
    HLW to HLV ·
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    Thanks everyone!

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  • MrsBest2B
    Master June 2016
    MrsBest2B ·
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    I've always gotten Miss on all invites...I'm 34

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  • S
    VIP August 2015
    Sparkles ·
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    I think this is regional. I prefer Ms but just got an invite with Miss on it and FH's 29 year old sister put "miss" on her RSVP...just to make things complicated. I'm in CA and they are both east coasters.

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  • Robin
    VIP September 2015
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    I just put their names. I hate Miss and Ms. And my invitations were casual.

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  • annakay511
    Master July 2015
    annakay511 ·
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    This is HUUUUUGEEEE pet peeve of mine. My supervisor at work always address stuff to me as Miss and it drives me crazy. Miss is for girls (under 18). Ms. is appropriate for unmarried women (18+)

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  • Brigit
    Master October 2015
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    I use Miss for anyone who has never been married. Ms. is for someone in a professional setting or a divorced woman.

    here is a reference

    http://www.diffen.com/difference/Miss_vs_Ms

    http://www.emilypost.com/forms-of-address/titles/96-guide-to-addressing-correspondence

    eta: honestly i did both , and i dont think that unless you have a "pet peeve" about the title that anyone would even notice. Both are correct unless there is a personal preference on which one to use. Ms. is essentially an abbreviation of miss.

    Ms. is used when you dont know what title to use also

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  • KitandKaboodle
    Master November 2016
    KitandKaboodle ·
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    When I took my etiquette class (yes there was such a thing) we were told:

    Ms. is for a woman who was married but is no longer married and/or over the age of 25

    Miss. is for a woman who has never been married and under the age of 25

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  • Z
    Master May 2012
    Zoe ·
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    It may be regional, but I grew up in Silicon Valley, and anything addressed to 'Miss' after I left hgh school would have just made me laugh. I think 'Ms.' is a safer bet.

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  • RJmargo
    Master May 2016
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    I'm from the east coast and I would say Ms. For your guests. Miss. Is for children

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  • Nancy Taussig
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    Miss for girls under 21 (or 18 or 16).

    Ms. for all women -- whether single or married. Unless you know they prefer "Mrs."

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  • Nancy Taussig
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    Miss for girls under 21 (or 18 or 16).

    Ms. for all women -- whether single or married. Unless you know they prefer "Mrs."

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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
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    Miss for a girl of an age that you'd use "Master" for a boy.

    Ms. for all other females, married, single, divorced, or widowed. Mrs. can properly be used only with the husband's name for a married woman or a widow. (Mrs. John Smith) And really, you don't want to stir up that whole hornet's nest!

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  • GrayCatVintage
    Master October 2015
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    I just did names like John & Sue Smith - no Miss, Ms. or Mrs. mess there.

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  • Barbara
    Master September 2014
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    Miss is used for unmarried girls/women of ANY age.

    Ms. is a (relatively new) politically correct term of address for women equivalent to "Mr."-- i.e., it does not denote marital status.

    Ms. is primarily for business purposes, but some women certainly prefer it for various reasons-- I'd probably stick with that just b/c you're sure not to offend anyone, but I am surprised by all of the confusion tying the titles to age. .. that's just not the case at all. . . .

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