Hi all!
This is my first post and im looking for some advice. I've been with my fiance for about 3 years and we have been engaged since last July. We have yet to set a date and do any major wedding planning. This whole time I thought it was because we were planning a destination wedding, but I'm starting to think I possibly have doubts about our relationship.
A little bit of history. It seems as though his mom has some issues. At the beginning of our relationship I helped rehome 30+ pomeranians living in her barn (heartworm +, fleas, malnourished, scared), she took it so hard she threatened scuicide. She has never really approved of me. Fast worward a year and I ended up rescuing her last 6 pomeranians who were in the house while she was away at rehab. At the same time I cleaned out her main room that was full of stuff, feces, rotted furniture etc. We were hoping to move her into a retirement facility but she would not. When she got back she cursed me, threatened me, and claimed I was the devil and thief.
Fast forward another year and I can never make her happy, she's never happy, her hoarding is getting worse, and cannot see what she's doing is unhealthy. She doesn't trust me, and in a passive aggressive way acts as though her son has betrayed her and has made the biggest mistake.
So am I overreacting? Should I not be trusted?
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