My mother and father very generously will be hosting our wedding at their home as well as paying for it. Paying was something they absolutely insisted on from the beginning.
My mother since has completely hijacked the wedding and it is not even recognizable to what myself and FH have been imagining for years.
The first thing in planning--I wanted a small weddingHer response was "absolutely not" and she was very pushy about adding 40 of her 'closest' friends.
My mother will actually no longer speak to me after on the phone I said "mom, we are on the same team", which offended her deeply for some reason and now she will only talk to FH which mostly consists of "what were you guys thinking" and even hurtful accusations that he is manipulating me to want certain things.
Since, she has changed our caterer without speaking to me, our wine vendor, and is changing general logistics to the ceremony.
I want my mothers input and we added a lot of elements that were her ideas (continued)
