OK, so my FMIL has been struggling to find a dress to wear for the wedding. She is gone shopping multiple times and hasn’t found anything she likes. However, she did find a dress she liked and sent me a picture for approval. Now I think it’s a lovely dress, however, it is not MOG appropriate in my opinion. I think it is too “attention getting” (as the day is not “hers” persay), not age appropriate, and basically I told her “no” by saying: “It is a lovely dress and I don’t want to be mean by saying no but I do not think it is a dress for a mother of the groom”.
With all that being said.... I’m really not one to say anything to anyone about what to do, wear, say, etc. but it really wasn’t appropriate in my opinion. And now tonight I asked her if she found a dress to wear and she said yes but it is a “surprise” but my fiancé approved it and her husband did too. When I finally got her to show me, it was the dress I told her no on. I am really hurt she ignored my request to not wear that dress but I want to know if I am being overly sensitive/letting the stress get to me/being dramatic...
What do I do? Suck it up and let it go? Or tell her I don’t appreciate her ignoring my request? Please, any advice or criticism welcome... I’m at a loss.
PS. Sorry for the terrible photos of photos... but that’s all I have to work with to show...