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Just Said Yes April 2012

Married in two states?

Janet, on July 3, 2011 at 7:23 PM

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I fell in love with my fiance while he was on a business trip to NYC. He loves me enough to commit to marriage, however, he is still married to his first wife San Fransisco. Unfortunately this means that I will only see him as often as he goes on "business trips." But he is loaded and thats O.K with...

I fell in love with my fiance while he was on a business trip to NYC. He loves me enough to commit to marriage, however, he is still married to his first wife San Fransisco. Unfortunately this means that I will only see him as often as he goes on "business trips." But he is loaded and thats O.K with me. Does anyone know if NYC will check if someone is married in another state? Or is this not a problem at all?

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  • K
    Super July 2011
    Kristin ·
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    Nancy T -well said!

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  • K
    Super July 2011
    Kristin ·
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    Jessica D you took the words right out of my mouth

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  • Waiting For the Day (Nicole)
    Super June 2012
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    Who cares if NYC checks? The guys is loaded, his real wife (I'm guessing) lives in San Francisco, and you're willing to risk jail time. I say live it up, make him buy you whatever you want, and when you're done with him, file for an annulment, and move on to the next sucker...DUH!

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  • K
    Super July 2011
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    Jessica D you took the words right out of my mouth

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  • Jamie
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    Jamie ·
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    Absolutely agree with Jessica D. How are you going to live in NY happily ever after knowing damn good and well he is still making love to his wife in CA?

    It makes me ill thinking of my man that way and you plan to live that as a day to day life?

    As for the loaded part? How exactly do you know he is loaded? Is this something he told you about like he told his wife he was on a business trip?

    Are there any children involved in this situation or were you brilliant enough to make sure you weren't being a complete home wrecker?

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  • Jamie
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    PS congrats on being my very first ugly comment recipient! I'm the nice one here that never says anything negative and you brought out my ugliness. Yay you! Troll!

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