Maid of Honor and Best Man Drama

When choosing a maid of honor. A bride is to choose someone who is very close to her. Someone she can trust. Someone who will have her best interests at heart, and someone who has her back. My fiancé has a friend who has been in his life for years. He wanted him to be his best man. He has a live in girlfriend. So the four of us went out to eat a couple of times. We went to Jacksonville to visit them and they came to our home to visit us. She and I became really close. So I told my fiancé that since Ken was going to be his best man. I would ask his fiancé to be my maid of honor. He said that would be great. I asked her. She feel in love with the idea and she yes. She would love to be my maid of honor. We talked on the phone and texted back and forth for months. I texted her pictures of the dresses I had picked out for the other bridesmaids and gave her the first choice to pick out her dress. All dresses were royal blue. But the maid of honor and the matron of honor, who is my sister, dresses would be different. She loved the dresses and choose her dress. Over our wedding discussions, I noticed that she would give a hint. How does Mike feel about that? Did you talk things over with him? I was like. Yes. But I’m talking to you. You are my maid of honor. She said that we just want y’all to be on one accord. I was like WTH! What was she talking about. We are on one accord. But I didn’t respond. I thought to myself that I talked to him before I even begin talking to you. So I began to feel a little strange. My sister told me that you should never choose a maid of honor that you barely know. Most of the time she will try to sabotage your wedding. It seems like she may be a little jealous of you. Because you are having your dream wedding. And she has been married and is going through a divorce and is living with Ken. But I still choose to let her be in the wedding because my fiancé still wanted Ken to be his best man. I texted her. She never texted me back. I called her. She never returned my call. A few weeks went by. All of a sudden. My fiancé and I were riding out of town. He shows me on his phone. Every text message that she and I had texted. His best man Ken had sent the text messages from his phone to my fiancé’s phone. She had texted our private conversations through text to her boyfriend’s phone so he could send them to my fiancé’s phone. I was furious!! 😡 I told him that I know that’s your friend but the both of them are trying to sabotage our wedding. I wish I had listened to my sister. She has been married for over ten years and she knows trouble when she sees it. I told my fiancé that I didn’t feel like I could trust her or him now. I was not going to let her be in the wedding period now. So he decided that he would not let Ken be his best man. Because they both were involved in the drama. When he talked to Ken. He played the innocent game. They tried to say that I had stopped communicating with her. They wanted us to get together and talk it out. I was like no way! I’m done! All I need is my sister to be my matron of honor and I choose my god sister to be my maid of honor. I don’t even want to invite Ken and his girlfriend to the wedding. But Ken and my fiancé are very close. He says that he doesn’t want him there. But. I know he is hurt by the whole situation. Sometimes men don’t see into things like women do. Everybody I have talked to about this situation says the same thing. Ken is really not his true friend. They were trying to break y’all up. You do all think that Mike, my fiancé should invite just Ken to the wedding as a guest?