Who took home all of your stuff after the reception? You card box, gifts, centerpieces, decorations, etc.
I'm curious, because we need to have everything out of our reception venue by 12:30am (part of our contract with them so that the venue has time to do their regular post-event cleaning before the next bride comes in the following morning to set up for her wedding), and the staff at our reception venue doesn't pick up stuff that they don't provide. So since we are providing our own centerpieces (nothing real intricate), we will need to be the ones to clean them up. We are planning on doing a sparkler exit at 11:30. Do we ask our wedding party and families to help with the clean up (and is it rude to ask if they could help out with this)? Do we come back after we leave to help clean up (which, I guess seems kind of ridiculous)?
Just curious how you did (or are planning on doing) yours so I can start coming up with a game plan for mine! Thanks!