lgbt planning help! 🙂

Themes aren’t necessary no matter the size of the wedding! “Wedding” is enough of a theme. I would just find a color scheme and overall feel that you like. Definitely not dumb to still want traditional wedding aspects with a smaller guest list.

View Quoted Comment Thanks caytlyn! I still want to have the bridal party and I thought about maybe making it a sleepover b pajama thing for us girls. We were also thinking of a combined bachelorette party too. Just ideas. We still have a while before we say “I do” I just want to get a jump start!

Honestly your wedding is probably the best excuse to really do whatever you want. I’ve seen some people on here go w themes (pirate, steam punk, Halloween etc) and if they love it then more power to them!! Sleepover sounds fun so if you and your fiancé want
to do it then go for it. Have fun w it. Be creative. Enjoy the planning!

You can still do all the wedding things even with a small invite list. Our wedding will be small with about 35 guests. Most are close family and then a few friends. We are doing a DW in Gatlinburg (we live about 4 hours away).
I don’t think we will do the whole bridal shower, bachelor/ette parties, but we are planning a wedding. Dress, small bridal party (our kids as MOH, Best Man and flower girl), unity ceremony, reception, flowers, decor, etc.
Do it the way you want.

Do it up and enjoy it. LGBT or otherwise have the wedding you want. I’m 60 and I have a big stinking fluffy dress with tulle and lots of bling. You be you and enjoy it!

Go for it. We threw a pirate wedding for just 15 guests! We skipped dancing/DJ because we weren’t into it but we had a beautiful ceremony then a pirate reception with an open bar and 5-star feast in a wine cave. I had a formal wedding dress and enjoyed getting my hair & makeup done. It had many elements of a “big” wedding but felt like a wonderfully-intimate dinner party.

View Quoted Comment That sounds so fun! I really like the sounds of your guest list!! It’s so small and Intimate.

View Quoted Comment Yes! I love bling things 🥰 anything that sparkles 😇

View Quoted Comment I love that! I used to think I wanted a large wedding but I also never really put all of the thought into it until the last few years and I would much rather put that extra money into our wedding attire and planning 😊

View Quoted Comment Thank you!! I haven’t fully decided what we are going to go with but I’m excited to explore all the options and ideas 😁

View Quoted Comment A Florida beach wedding with a small guest list sounds heavenly! What other ideas are you playing with?

View Quoted Comment I’ve really only been dead set on those two 😓Lol we know we are still trying to decide on location so that we don’t get rained out or sweat to death 😂 There literally may be like 8 people total including our children. We also want something all inclusive like I’m not sure if the venues provide a hotel stay or if we have to we’ll rent a home for everyone to stay in. I’ve had 2 back to back birthdays so this is the most digging into planning I’ve done since we got engaged 😁

View Quoted Comment Tee hee. Well, “small beach wedding” is a fabulous place to start. Keep us post on some venues you check out. 🏝 ❤️

View Quoted Comment Definitely!! So far I like ‘barefoot wedding’ I believe it’s called. I think we are going to visit Destin sometime this summer to get a feel 🙂

View Quoted Comment Yay! A barefoot wedding seems so easy breezy.


Love your profile pic. Adorable! 💕

View Quoted Comment Thank you!! It was our last pic as girlfriends😁we got engaged that evening ❤️And I haven’t looked at the specifics of places but I saved 4 different venues so far!

View Quoted Comment Aw! Soooo cute.


Exciting on the venues. Honestly, choosing our venue was my favorite part. ❤️