My younger sister and I have an estranged relationship.
I have 3 sisters, 2 on my dads side and 1 on my moms. I am estranged with the sister on my moms side. I grew up with her, I only met my biological father and other sisters when I was 18. I quickly established a close bond with them, which bothers my other sister (I'll call her Sam)
So Sam is in a very toxic relationship and lives 8 hrs away from me. I see her maybe once a year. Her boyfriend and her are addicted to drugs. There is physical abuse present. Her boyfriend has also stolen jewelry from my mom and checks from my parents. He DEFINITELY is not welcome in my home or at my wedding.
When FH and I started wedding planning is was going to include Sam in my bridal party, I don't want her to feel left out as my other 2 sisters are bridesmaids. I have attempted to send Sam bridesmaid dress ideas to make her feel included. She never replies. I saw her over Christmas and tried to talk with her.
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