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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Keep or Skip: Father walking you down the aisle?

Lynnie, on May 30, 2018 at 1:33 PM

Posted in Wedding Ceremony 85

This week we're playing " keep or skip " with popular wedding traditions! ✔️❌ The traditions around parents blessings and "being given away" have definitely fallen out of favor as weddings (thankfully!) become more modern, but some people still really want that moment with their dad walking down the...

This week we're playing " keep or skip " with popular wedding traditions! ✔️

The traditions around parents blessings and "being given away" have definitely fallen out of favor as weddings (thankfully!) become more modern, but some people still really want that moment with their dad walking down the aisle! What are you doing? Are you keeping or skipping (or modernizing) this ceremony tradition?


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85 Comments

  • Robyn
    Expert October 2018
    Robyn ·
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    Keeping. It's important to my dad and I'm his only daughter.
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  • M
    Beginner May 2020
    Melissa ·
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    Absolutely keeping this. It is important that my father walks me down the aisle and he would not have it any other way.
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  • M
    Devoted August 2018
    Monique ·
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    Keeping! I'm my dad's youngest daughter and the first one to get married so it's kind of a big deal lol. Walking down the aisle on my dad's arm to my FH is one of the things I'm most looking forward to.
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  • M
    Super October 2018
    Michelle ·
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    I don't think I will have him walk me down the aisle. Our relationship isn't the best, although I love him and he has done a lot for me. Plus, no need to give me away. I am an adult and have been living with my FH since last year.

    But it's totally fine if other people want to do it. I may consider it if he tells me it's important to him.
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  • Kelly
    Devoted August 2018
    Kelly ·
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    Keeping. I'm not considering it as him "giving me away" but I definitely want him to escort me down the aisle.
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  • McD to McC
    Dedicated August 2018
    McD to McC ·
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    I'm leaning toward skipping. My parents got divorced when I was 6, and my Dad has been completely anti-marriage ever since. As long as I can remember, he has always called weddings "hangings". He's already sent us an email through our wedding website about our "hanging". I'm not sure I want someone with such negative feelings about marriage walking me into mine. Bad juju or something. BUT I still need to talk to him about it. He might care about it more than he lets on.

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  • Kaylyn
    Super May 2019
    Kaylyn ·
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    Might keep? I’m either walking myself or having both my parents walk me
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  • CarrieAndBert
    Expert June 2018
    CarrieAndBert ·
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    No. My father did it in 1994. He doesn't need to this time. I will walk myself.
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  • Laura
    Champion June 2010
    Laura ·
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    Skip! My dad was there both times I got married, but we've never had a really close relationship. My mom walked me down the aisle the first time I got married, and my son walked me down the aisle this time. My dad was probably disappointed, but he understood.

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  • rica
    VIP September 2018
    rica ·
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    This is definitely something that means a lot to my dad. I'll be happy to have him with me too. I didn't think I'd be sentimental about these things, but I'm definitely getting there!

    What is a little different is that we don't have an actual aisle. We are walking from the bus to guests who will be facing us.

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  • MrsPreach2018
    Master August 2018
    MrsPreach2018 ·
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    Keeping! FH is looking forward to this part and wouldn't have it any other way.
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  • Kayla
    Expert January 2019
    Kayla ·
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    Sort of keeping, both my mom and dad will walk me down!
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  • P
    Super January 2019
    PalmTrees ·
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    Skip, won’t be walking down an aisle really
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  • Dayna
    Dedicated September 2018
    Dayna ·
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    Im skipping for the main fact my father and i dont want anything to do with each other. But i planned from the start to have my 12 yr old son to give me away
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  • Bride107
    Expert October 2018
    Bride107 ·
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    Keep, I'm ready for this!

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  • J
    Just Said Yes July 2019
    Jessie ·
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    Keep = 1st wedding

    2nd time around = SKip

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  • Summer
    Super August 2018
    Summer ·
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    Keep. I don't find this antiquated at all, you're not saying your father "owned" you (at least not anymore). But my dad is wonderful and I have no problem implying that he's been my biggest supporter, protector, and pillar of strength most of my life, and he's handing a portion of that responsibility off to FH. I think it's a sweet tradition.

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  • K
    Just Said Yes April 2019
    Krystyne ·
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    Without getting into details, my grandfather (my mom's dad) will be walking me down the aisle. It makes me cry just thinking about it and I know it's going to be one of the most special parts of the day for sure.

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  • Erin
    April 2019
    Erin ·
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    I wam planning on my father giving me away, but he lives across the country and has some health issues. I would like to believe he will make the trip, but if he doesn't, my brother will give me away.
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  • Hannah
    Beginner May 2019
    Hannah ·
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    Skipping. I have two fathers and love them both, but I am not personally a fan of the symbolism of being given away by my dad(s). I will either have all four of my parents walk me down the aisle, or will walk myself and have them meet me at the end of the aisle.
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