June Wedding Postponements

My fiancé and I were set to get married in June 20, 2020. We had to make the very difficult decision to postpone until June 19, 2021.
We were sad, and angry, and frustrated for one day. Beyond that, we kicked ourselves into gear by saying to each other, “let’s make the most of it.”
There are so many positives coming out of this. We have more time to save our money to do things we otherwise weren’t able to afford, our friends having babies in June who could not make it can now most likely come next year. My bridal shower and bachelorette trip will not be rushed and we can take our time planning them again. The list goes on. Also, provided the bans will be lifted by June, we’re still getting married at the courthouse on 6/19/2020, so we can have nuptials the year after on our first year anniversary! Focus on the positives and only allow yourself to be mad and upset for so long. You have the right to be, but it will be so much easier when you start to look at the positives!I hope this helps someone going through what I went through.