I am 18 days to our big day and we are leaving for our DW in 12 days and I just don't feel "the pressure." It all just seems sort of surreal to me- like it's not really happening though- maybe b/c it's gone by so fast- but we've been engaged for almost 3 years so it's always seemed so far off too, or maybe b/c we're getting married 800 miles away from home so we didn't go to any different venues or do tastings for catering or cakes or anything, we didn't have any meetings w/any vendors- it's all been via e-mail, but I'm not panicked or stressed really at all... just calm and excited. I think that's nice, but I feel like when I finally get to NC, I'll feel the panic and my easy going demeanor might change. I hope not though. Wish me luck!!