Is this tacky?

Lol. i vote show up with no present in an eye-catching dress in white and sequins, then get wasted on the dance floor.... before the first dance

You have confused the crapola out of me. That's tacky.

How about you decline and DON'T send them a tacky gift. Maybe they won't be so tacky anymore.

RSVP no, but show up anyway.

PurpleSun has the right idea too.

PurpleSun is right...

I agree, the only way to deal with tacky people is to be tacky in return. Take PurpleSun's advice!

I vote you be tacky and don't RSVP then show up with no tacky gift and bring 10 other tacky people that were not invited. That will teach those sending out tacky invites to you again.

Ok... so here's my thought.. Why invite people you don't want there. I refuse to do that. But I do agree I see it alot. I say if your good friends then go, if u just know of then decline.

Don't forget to cut the cake for the couple, to no do so is tacky

also hijack the speeches and the pictures

Do you think it would be tacky if I combined all your fabulous suggestions into one tacky guest?

Honestly, I think people invite everyone they want there but have a guestimate of who may RSVP no. It doesn't mean they don't want you there, but for example: I sent out 45 invites thinking 10% may not show...nobody specific tho, and I won't be hurt if pple can't go. If everyone RSVP yes then that would be great also!! I wouldn't expect a gift if u aren't going unless u are close family. I think you should go and have a good time, unless you don't really like the people inviting you!!! Also, don't call and ask if they want you there bc obviously if you made the guest list (which I'm sure they had to cut some people out of) then they want you there

I'm not sure what is and isn't tacky anymore... but I AM cracking up at this post!

Dont RSVP until the day before the wedding then show up in white late to the ceremony and announce you have arrived! make sure DH wears jorts and then follow purplesun advice from there! Clearly the least tacky way to go..

Oh and i agree with MissB make sure you cut their cake for them

Y'all are confusing me now.

How am I supposed to cut their tacky cake if I'm wasted? Also, will that ruin my tacky white dress with sequins?

Ohno to not do so would be tacky

do not forget to meow your objection loudly!!!

Either well, you will be the best tacky kitty ever invited to a wedding!

You can have one of the 10 people you brought with you hold you up and make sure you get no cake on your dress? That is clearly appropriate? No?

I had a friend (tacky, yes) who invited about 200 people more than she actually wanted at the wedding because she was SURE they wouldn't show up and she quite tackily wanted the gifts (I'm not close friends with her) - to her surprise a huge amount accepted and she had to go way over budget and they ended up having no room for a dance floor because of the venue. Tacky, tacky, tacky.

Also I love all of these amazingly tacky suggestions

Lol, love this post. Yeah, I say don't rsvp, don't answer your phone, email or facebook when they try to contact you. Show up in a dress that matches the bridesmaids and bring a minimum of 3 crying children with you. Then complain to the server that you are allergic to everything being served plus you need 3 kids meals. And bring them an item completely opposite of everything they have listed on their registry.

Also offer to help with the centerpieces