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Amanda
Master August 2013

Is this an okay father/daughter dance song?

Amanda, on May 15, 2013 at 3:04 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 18

Let me preface by saying that FH and I reallllly didn't want to do parent/child dances, but our parents want them, so we're letting them have that :-)

My dad and I have an okay relationship, but he hasn't been a great dad nor are we terribly close. I don't want some sappy "My Little Girl" or "Butterfly Kisses" moment with him, because it just wouldn't feel authentic.

One really clear memory I have from my childhood is my dad singing Van Morrison "Brown Eyed Girl" to me alllll the time - except he'd sing it as blue eyed girl for me. I didn't even know the real words until I was like 15.

Would this be an okay father/daughter dance song? I like that it's fun and upbeat and has a special meaning to us, but there is that line about getting frisky outdoors. Do you think if we faded out before that line (it's towards the end of the song), it would work? Just play the original song as is? Pick something else?

18 Comments

Latest activity by mackenzie, on May 20, 2013 at 12:25 PM
  • Laudie
    Master October 2013
    Laudie ·
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    I definitely think that is an acceptable song! If my dad had sang that song to me instead of My Girl when I was little I definitely would have chosen that!

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  • We'llAlwaysHaveParis
    Master November 2013
    We'llAlwaysHaveParis ·
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    It's fun.

    My dad and I aren't close either so I let him choose the F/D song at my first wedding. He picked Then They Do by Trace Adkins. All I really remember was how long that song seemed LOL

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  • Alexis
    Dedicated June 2013
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    I think that's a great choice since its something personal to you. I wouldn't even worry about that line.

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  • Cheetah2B
    Master June 2014
    Cheetah2B ·
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    I think it's ok. In fact, a great DJ might be able to change the "brown" to "blue" without a huge stink, as well...then, have him print a couple cd singles for you and your dad, since it's "your" song Smiley smile

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  • Barbara
    Master September 2014
    Barbara ·
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    I think its a great idea.

    Another alternative would be to use an instrumental version:

    http://www.amazon.com/Brown-Eyed-Girl/dp/B000TPPU10

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  • Laura Nicole
    VIP October 2013
    Laura Nicole ·
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    I think that's a great choice, it's special to you! Also, I'm pretty sure there's an "edited" version that replaced the "making love in the green grass" line with "laughing and running" again if you feel kind of weird about that line. I've definitely heard it on the radio on some of the really soft rock stations, not sure if it would be tough to find.

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  • Amanda
    Master August 2013
    Amanda ·
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    @Laura, thanks for the tip about the edited version! I'll ask my DJ about it. Just wanted some unbiased opinions on the song choice first :-)

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  • Laura Nicole
    VIP October 2013
    Laura Nicole ·
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    No problem, it's thrown me off singing along with the radio several times, so hopefully it will serve a useful purpose as well! Smiley smile

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  • Mrs. Chumley
    Super July 2013
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    Oh yeah very cute, me nad my dad are the same way as you described yours and I would probably do it the way you are but luckily my dad doesnt push for that sort of thing lol...good choice, pick what you feel comfortable with!

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  • Out the Window
    Master May 2014
    Out the Window ·
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    Go for it. I'm using song that's in a completely different language. I don't even know what it translates to, but it brings us memories of when I was little.

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  • Tiffany
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    Tiffany ·
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    That would be fun! It's so much better when the song means something, even if the people don't understand why you chose it, you and your dad will. It will surprise him you remember him singing that when you were a little girl.

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  • Amanda
    Master August 2013
    Amanda ·
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    @Stephanie, it's really FH's mom that's pushing for it. Honestly now that I think about it, my dad hasn't even brought it up! He's actually been pretty cool through all the planning. I know it'd mean a lot to him though.

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  • Kim
    Super June 2018
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    Absoluetly!! I feel that anyway you are able to make your wedding personal to you, the better. They are your memories and there is no right or wrong way to do anything....it's all about you!!

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  • Jessica
    Super September 2013
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    I say do it! I've also heard the "edited" version that Laura mentioned, so hopefully it won't be too hard to find.

    Also, my mom used to sing this song to me!

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  • K
    Super June 2013
    Kim ·
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    I think its a great song! Smiley smile

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  • KristnH
    Master November 2013
    KristnH ·
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    I think it'd be great. My dad and I are dancing to "What a Wonderful World" by Louis Armstrong because it reminds me of dad, not because of any father/daughter meaning behind it.

    I've heard that edited version too - accidentally downloaded it once and was so confused haha. Your DJ should have it somewhere.

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  • Shojo*Bride
    Super October 2015
    Shojo*Bride ·
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    Always use s0mething that holds memories for you.

    If I do a father/daughter song it'll probably be more than words by extreme bc last time i saw him we danced to it..in front of my fh.(it was the first time my fh saw me and my dad that close) so it definitely means something to us.=)

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  • mackenzie
    Expert September 2013
    mackenzie ·
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    I'm not familiar with that Song but I think as long as you fade it out before the dirty talk your good! Lol I'm not close with my dad either, but he's a riot, we are going to dance to Rodney Atkins cleaning my gun, totally fits his personality lol

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