Is there such a thing

I think we all have that one friend. I have a friend who does this a lot too. She finds a guy she likes and thinks this is the one, I support her of course. But in the back of my head I'm like wait you just broke up with someone a week ago and now you are moving this fast with someone else slow down. I personally don't understand it. My friend is the same too, super fragile so I think it's easier to just go with it.

I guess you could say my relationship was kind of a whirlwind. He moved to where I live within 5 months, but we carefully planned it out. He put in for a transfer a work about 4 months; it got approved he moved up here a month later.

Even though it's hard it really is a mind your business kind of situation just be a supportive friend no matter what the outcome she's an adult and going to do what she wants no matter what you say so no point in getting involved.

I've known people to get married quickly and it work out (my parents got engaged 6 months in). But what concerns me is the fact they haven't even met in person yet. This is dangerous and not healthy. Although it seems like if you do say something to her, it may backfire and she may get mad at you. If she's too immature to see the light on things, she may just blame it on you.

Please get the information on when/where they are meeting just in case. Someone needs to know where she is if this guy turns out to be one of those things you mentioned.

I would suggest a double date with you and your FH when she meets him for the first time, lunch or maybe offer to join in on the apartment hunt. If I was you, I would be scared for my friend too.

Can you sit down with her to express your concerns about this situation? Don't tell her its wrong or you don't agree, just that you're worried about her safety/well being. Ask her about their plan (where will he work, whose name will the lease be in, how will they split the bills, etc)

Fast romances can work out- my fiance and I moved in together a week after we met and the two years since is the happiest either of us have ever been!- but I imagine it might be very, very different with rebounds/internet-strangers/emotionally vulnerable people.

You know better than any of us if there's reason for concern- but even if you are worried, the best way to act on it is to make sure your friend knows you're there for her (without any unwelcome negative premonitions!). I think other people have been right in saying that intervening would do more harm than good! If you're being supportive, and looking out for any significant problems in the relationship she might be blind to, you're doing every thing a good friend would