Is May a good month for Socal wedding?

Hello,
Is there anyone who got married in May in Southern California? Or attended a wedding in May? What was the weather like on your wedding day? Our venue would be 15-20mins from the beach in Orange County (so not super close to the water, I know its cooler by the coast but we’re not inland either where it gets warmer). I’m debating between May or Sept/Oct. I know in May you might get that gloomy, cloudy weather (May Gray/June Gloom is usually that time). So I was just wondering if it will be too chilly and gloomy in May? But again you might get those gloomy days in September/October too, it just rained 2 days here in September so I guess you never know when it comes to weather. Anyways, I would appreciate if anyone can share their experiences. Thanks!