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Mrs.
Super November 2012

is it weird to sauter your rings before the wedding?

Mrs., on October 15, 2012 at 12:16 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 27

the lady at the kays told me i should have it done before the wedding so i did because its a 2 wring band so 3 rings all together. my friend thinks its weird what are you ladies doing?

The lady at the kays told me i should have it done before the wedding so i did because its a 2 wring band so 3 rings all together. my friend thinks its weird what are you ladies doing?

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  • Courtney
    VIP November 2012
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    I'm wearing my ering on my right 3rd finger. Do whatever makes you happy!

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  • R
    Master June 2015
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    My jeweler made a good point when I was asking about getting my rings sodered together. They said it is safer for the rings to be together to avoid the rolling around/rubbing each other/clinking against, etc. that can occur. It helps alleviate the risk of diamonds falling out or the gold getting scratched. I still haven't decided what I'll do but it was a great point to consider!

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  • D
    Master March 2013
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    I'm definitely getting mine soldered together, because the band will not stay upright and it's really annoying having to constantly turn them around. Plus, when they rub together it accelerates the yellowing of the white gold.

    I say it's not weird to get it done before the wedding. I'm sure "most" brides don't, just because they usually don't even get a hold of the band until the wedding day. I'll probably do it before as well, so I can also take them both in for a cleaning to get nice and shiny for the day of Smiley smile

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  • Jen
    Beginner November 2015
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    Mine are already soldered b/c they were my h2b grandmothers rings, my mom told me the best way to handle that was to wear them backward until the wedding (engagement ring on bottom-band on top) and then at the wedding have him put it on the right way with band on bottom.


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  • Randi
    Just Said Yes July 2016
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    I got mind soldered together and just got them back today. I have been wrestling with the idea of wearing them just because I want to and I kinda do my own thing. Haha but not wanting it to be bad luck... I don't really believe in the bad luck thing but is it strange to wear them together? I get married in a month.

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  • D
    Just Said Yes June 2018
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    Https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/solder

    SOLDER - NOT sauter

    And ~ the wedding band is supposed to go on first (closest to the heart)

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  • Kelsey
    Just Said Yes June 2018
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    This looks identical to my engagement ring and wedding band! And mine was my grandmother's also!

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