Is it weird to have a maid of honor and a matron of honor?

There's nothing wrong with having both a maid and matron of honor. However, how many people are you having total in the bridal party? It becomes awkward when you have 3 people on your side and 2/3 are a maid/matron of honor.

No, it’s not weird.

Nope it’s not weird. I’ve seen it before many times!

I don't think it's weird at all! I have both a Maid of Honor which is my cousin and she's married and I have a Matron of Honor which is my sister and she's married also. I did it this way because I'm closest to my sister,so she'll stand right next to me and help me with my train and holding my bouquet and such..
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That is a great idea! I think it could work.

Most only pick one because they feel it takes away from the "honor" title to have more than one.

View Quoted Comment I have 5 in total

View Quoted Comment That’s exactly what I’m thinking about doing. Thank you so much!! You too!!

View Quoted Comment Thank you!! I’ve never seen it done but i think it’s a neat idea

View Quoted Comment Thanks girl me too!!

View Quoted Comment That makes perfect sense and I also don’t want anyone else to be jealous or mad about it

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No one will be upset if you only pick one person. Unless they have jealousy issues to begin with, and that's not on you.

View Quoted Comment Very true. But if I have 2 that’s when I get a little worried but the all know I have my little sister as moh but she’s still young and doesn’t really know how to plan a bachelorette party or anything where as my best friend had already planned it before we had to postpone and now o feel like she’s done so much I should give her a title.

My sister did this, I was maid of honor and our oldest sister was matron of honor. Not weird or awkward at all. I’m doing the same thing but both of my sisters are married, so I’m doing co-matrons of honor lol, because traditionally maids are unmarried and matrons are married. I’m only having one other bridesmaid, my cousin, but honestly it doesn’t feel weird to have two co-matrons and one bridesmaid (or if anyone else thinks it’s weird, no one has said anything lol!). My cousin may or may not even make it, depending on how much COVID improves by our wedding in September, so I very well may end up with two matrons of honor and no bridesmaids present.


It’s your day, do whatever you think is best

I have 2. My future sister in law and my bestie. One is single the other is not.i don't want to choose.

Nope, not weird at all. I've seen many brides do that

I feel like that's really normal! It may help the Maid of Honor with planning to have someone else with that title!

View Quoted Comment That’s what I was thinking too! Thanks!

I've seen this done often. Whatever title they have, the important thing is to choose people you love.

Nope! Not weird at all!