Is it weird to blend metals on wedding day

I think it's really sweet to wear your grandma's necklace! Outside of detail shots, all your jewelry pieces won't be close enough that it would be discernable in pictures or in person. And metals are neutral anyways, so it won't look off either. If you're really concerned about it, try wearing a gold necklace with other silver jewelry for a day and see if it bugs you or anyone notices.

I don't think it would be weird at all! The sentimental value of "having" your gram there on your wedding day greatly outweighs the contrasting of metals that may not even be visible in your pictures, anyway!

View Quoted Comment Thank you I was worried about that. I wanted to include her in the wedding but also didn’t want to wear everything else being gold

View Quoted Comment Thank you I was worried about that

It would be a plus to have people notice it. Then you would get to mention it is for remembering your Gram.

Absolutely would not be weird. My color scheme centers around "mixed metallics". Maybe it used to be a fashion taboo, but I don't think it is anymore.

If you really do want to wear all silver, though, you could include the necklace by wrapping it around your bouquet. You can use the ribbons that wrap the bouquet to make sure it's secure. I've seen that before.

Go for it!!! Seriously 5 years from now you'll be thinking "wow why did I even care about that." It's not going to look bad, and you'll have that special memory for the rest of your life

View Quoted Comment Thank you I was thinking the same thing

I think it would work out just fine. I know that that was a wedding trend a few years ago too.