Is it terrible that I don't want my sister to be a bridesmaid?

I'm an only child, but FH has four siblings...only one is in the wedding. Totally okay to not have your sister in it.

My sister didn't care either way. She's more of the go with the flow type.

But my mom caused so much stress over it that I ended up asking my sister anyways.

Do what makes you happy- I have two sisters and I'm not super close to either. They wanted to be co-moh and I couldn't stand the idea

I regret asking mine as well. I felt like I had to ask. She has been miserable, to the point I even question she will come at all.

I should've picked people based on my actual relationship with them, not feeling obligated.

My sister and I don't fight anymore, but we are not involved in each others' lives. She has decided she is not even attending my wedding. She has "something better to do". Actually not going to miss her.

Thank you soo much everyone !! It is a really hard position to be in. My mom has this idea that because she never had a sister , that we have an automatic bond, but we don't. I support and love her, and I know she does the same for me, but we drive one another crazy.

I have tried explaining this to my mom, but she is still upset, i'll just have to take the heat!

I will take your suggestions as ask her to do another job. I had asked her to be my photographer, but she refused, So i'll find something for her to do..its gonna be interesting, but I am on the side of keeping this wedding as stress free as I can manage!